If you’re not a happy single person, you won’t be a happy married person. Another human being can’t fulfill your happiness. Only God can do that. Stop looking to boyfriends or girlfriends to make you happy. It starts with a relationship between you and God first.
A Christian man who takes the lead in sexual purity, and who tells the woman that her heart means more to him than her body, and her purity is more valuable to him than his own pleasure, liberates her from a cruel bondage and gives her a blessing that words can hardly describe.